I experienced a similar situation in college. I pledged the weird small frat on campus that just smoked hookah and played video games, and the president had a legit footlong. He had trouble getting laid because women would see it and nope out.

But I had a friend who was a masochist, so eventually they started dating (there were rumors about his size from being pantsed at a party, but she confirmed it). She loved barely being able to walk the next day