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minus-squareMadlaine@feddit.delinkfedilinkarrow-up0·6 months agoIn another comment you clearly stated that femboys are not the same thing as trans. And now you want to push the transfem label onto a non-afab person just because they admit to wear gender-non-conforming clothes?
minus-squareCheesyCheese1 [She/her]@lemmy.caOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·6 months agoNo I said we aren’t femboys, we are women. If someone claims to be a boy and dresses fem it’s clear they aren’t entirely cis, if they were such act would give them unbelievable gender dysphoria and discomfort.
minus-squareMadlaine@feddit.delinkfedilinkarrow-up1·edit-26 months ago This is a meme about trans women, please don’t conflate us with femboys. Sounds for me like: “femboys exist, but we are not the same”; not “femboys do not exist. They’re just in denial” (and I do agree with the first; not with the second)
minus-squareSkyezOpen@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·6 months agoYou just singlehandedly invalidated the gender identity of every cis drag queen. That’s impressive.
In another comment you clearly stated that femboys are not the same thing as trans.
And now you want to push the transfem label onto a non-afab person just because they admit to wear gender-non-conforming clothes?
No I said we aren’t femboys, we are women. If someone claims to be a boy and dresses fem it’s clear they aren’t entirely cis, if they were such act would give them unbelievable gender dysphoria and discomfort.
Sounds for me like:
“femboys exist, but we are not the same”; not “femboys do not exist. They’re just in denial”
(and I do agree with the first; not with the second)
You just singlehandedly invalidated the gender identity of every cis drag queen. That’s impressive.