• wuphysics87@lemmy.ml
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    5 months ago

    I don’t mean to be flippant, but do do you know they don’t like you, or do they just not care about you. It’s both a liberating and disheartening day when you discover no one gives a shit about you.

  • 1984@lemmy.today
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    6 months ago

    At work, it can be difficult, specially if it’s someone you have to work with.

    The adult way is to have a talk about it and figure out what’s causing the issue.

    The childish way is to talk shit about the person with others and gather support for you being right and the other person being a weirdo.

    Most people go with the childish way since it’s easier and doesn’t require courage.

  • Bronzie@sh.itjust.works
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    6 months ago

    Do they dislike me for no good reason? If yes: fuck them, I’m awesome!

    Do they dislike me because I did something dumb? Let’s talk and let me appologise if I cocked something up for you. My intentions are rarely malicius.

    This let’s me live a happy life knowing I didn’t ruin anyone’s day and ignore the rest.

    • lidd1ejimmy@lemmy.mlOP
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      6 months ago

      Agreed.

      Because of my kind nature it isn’t very often that people dislike me or have a problem with me.

      When they do it’s always the same story for 99% of other people. So they just don’t get along with anyone. Can’t people please them all…