People who make me feel like crap or worse off then when I encountered them consistently are written off and out of my life
Doesn’t matter if its family, nobody is entitled to your attention and suffering and it does nobody any real good for you to succumb to the inevitable dysfunction it creates in your life and relationships and also material conditions.
Don’t do good things to be good, do them because of how good they make you feel
Pay attention, it’s the little things that make the whole picture when put together
If you’re unsure about doing a certain activity do it anyways. It’s better to err than to do nothing and forever wonder what it would had been like if you had
Most people aren’t evil, they just have been formed differently by life itself. Try to understand them before you decide how you feel about them