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Cake day: June 20th, 2023

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  • This is the problem I’ve encountered. Anime is fine, it’s like any other show/entertainment but it really can attract the wrong type of people. It’s why I don’t put it in my profile. The person I’m seeing has plenty of “horror” stories like yours too and said they avoid people with that in their profile now even though they like it cause of how weird or obsessive people can get about it.

    Kinda sucks cause IMO one of the best parts about it is the ability to create other worlds/universes that live action struggles to do. (Think ATLA anime vs Live action)


  • I recall one moment with an ex GF, we were the same height, never bothered me, it was what it was. I still recall we went to some even though, she put on some heels and turned around and gave me just the most heart breaking pity look and took off her heels. Man, it never occurred to me it was or would be a problem, but I could see it was to her.

    That didn’t ruin the relationship or anything, we continued for quite a bit after, but I still recall that vividly.



  • I’ve been seeing a girl about a month now and I find her SO attractive that it’s made me way more cautious about making moves. I’m increasingly finding that although she’s incredibly attractive to me she likes the same stuff p much every other girl I’ve dated has. I just am getting in my own way by thinking I’ll fuck it up. What’s even more bizzare is she likes me too




  • Yes and no, the way our society is built/structured can’t handle negative growth. A lot of infrastructure and way of life/quality of life would suffer massively. That being said, pop growth also can’t go up forever (while limited to earth). We actually have a ton of livable land left too, cities have learned how to be so super dense that it’s eating all the rural area’s populations in quickly developing places (It’s where all the jobs and opportunities are -cities). Estimates suggest we will top off around 10 billion people



  • Romance has also been skewed by media to this constant thing that’s also become a bit of an expectation. In my experience those romantic moments are just that, moments. They’re created from feelings and random interactions. It can be effort and planned of course but not as a non-stop fairytale style of life which seems to be increasingly desired/expected.

    Media really only shows the good and intense parts, similar to the porn problem, that people end up forgetting that it’s a small portion of the actual time together. Instagram lives are a good example of this. Cute times while cooking dinner happen, but not every meal, not every day. It becomes special when it’s not all the time, when your partner notices something and acts on it. Otherwise it’s exhausting and draining.