If only it wasn’t so cold! :)
Admin of lemmy.blahaj.zone
I can also be found on the microblog fediverse at @ada@blahaj.zone or on matrix at @ada:chat.blahaj.zone
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Out of ten, how would you rate your ability to empathize with people with opposing viewpoints?
20·21 days agoIt depends on what those opposing viewpoints are. If they involve actively targeting and harming vulnerable people, I have no space at all for those viewpoints or the people that hold them.
For the other stuff, maybe a 7.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What kind of situation would you have to be in to think, "I really wish there was an American here right now."
9·23 days agoLike, a Colombian, or an Argentinian or a Costa Rican?
Honestly, all the time. They’re awesome folk!
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What do you think about each Lemmy instance trying to be a Reddit alternative?
1·29 days agoWell, in that regards, they’re similar to blahaj, as in, our instance doesn’t just have trans communities. Our user base is focused on trans and gender diverse folk however. Hexbear, similarly, has all sorts of communities, but their userbase is focused on shared politics, even though their areas of discussion are not restricted to that.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What do you think about each Lemmy instance trying to be a Reddit alternative?
4·29 days agoHexbear is very protective of it’s trans users and it has a lot of them. But its “specialist area” is politics.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What do you think about each Lemmy instance trying to be a Reddit alternative?
49·29 days agoI think it’s a good thing, because it discourages centralisation. If we end up with a bunch of specialist instances, then diversity suffers, because everyone looking for a specific area will end up on the one single specialist instance dedicated to it.
And I say that as the admin of an instance focused on the trans and gender diverse folk. There is a reason that we don’t enforce specialisation on those topics in our instance communities though. Even so, we still tend to be “the trans instance”, when I’d much prefer it if we were just one of many, like we are on the microblog part of the fediverse.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Can we talk about the people who use Linux?English
301·30 days agoOn the chance that you’re engaging honestly, rather than just trolling…
WhatsApp, Roblox and Signal all run fine in Linux.
This is the ProtonDB page for Roblox. https://www.protondb.com/app/2181790. ProtonDB is a database that assesses how well windows games run under linux, and in this case, Roblox is Gold rated.
There are numerous WhatsApp apps and wrappers that run under linux, and Signal has an official Linux version found here https://signal.org/download/linux/
Sorry, I was trying to be outright hostile, not passively.
There are no widely federated edgelord instances at this point in time
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•what country would you never go to again?
2·1 month agoYou’re right about that, and if I ever do go back, that will be why! But the sameness I was talking about is more the cultural identities of the countries. Every place we stayed felt like it could be transplanted to Australia, and fit right in. It might be different if I wasn’t Australian :)
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•what country would you never go to again?
10·1 month agoI’ve never been to the US, so I can’t say I won’t go there again, but I can say I won’t go there at all.
But in terms of countries I have been to, probably New Zealand. There’s nothing wrong with New Zealand, but it feels too much like Australia, and baring me suddenly developing an unlimited amount of time and money, there are other places I would rather go
The thing that makes them right wing is the exclusions they place on their “progressive” policies. It’s always the vulnerable
Swedish right-wing populist party Sverigedemokraterna explicitly support that:
They don’t support housing for everyone because they don’t believe that non western foreigners should be allowed in to the country, and they don’t believe that people who aren’t “culturally Danish” are citizens.
So they don’t believe in housing for all
German right-wing populist party Alternative für Deutschland is led by a lesbian who calls her party "the only real protective force for gays and lesbians in Germany
They’re an explicitly transphobic party who doesn’t extend queer rights to trans people, even if they’re gay or lesbian. They actively practice discrimination against LGBTQ folk.
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Linux@lemmy.ml•I just found out my fiancee wants to switch to linux, lets start a distro war, what should be her first? + other questions
7·2 months agoThe distro I find easiest to recommend to folk in my life looking to move to Linux is the distro that I’m using/most familiar with, because it makes it easier to help them out if they run in to an issue.
I use CachyOS, and previously, I was trying to support Mint etc, but having zero experience with the way the way Mint handles packages, with its default apps, update process etc, I found myself having to research an OS I don’t use, and offer 2nd hand advice. I moved them over to CachyOS, and even though technically, it’s not as beginner friendly, my day to day familiarity with it meant that it was easier to help out when troubles arose.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•If you found someone attractive, would you date them if you found out they were trans?
2·2 months agoTo answer it seriously, for me, it’s not specifically cis, but more broadly, queer. I need someone who has faced the assumptions that society forces on them and knows how to exist in the world anyway, having faced those assumptions, questioned them and found their own relationship with themselves.
tl;dr I need people who have had to question who they are and find themselves, rather than someone who has never had to answer those questions.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Men can take their shirts off for hot days and exercise. Why can't women do the same in 2025?English
433·2 months agoIn my experience (as a trans woman who has experienced both sides of this coin), I can no longer get away with being topless in most situations. However, I can get away with wearing less in more situations. It’s acceptable for me to wear a short cut, sleeveless tank top or boob tube in situations where it would be difficult for a guy to wear a singlet or other sleeveless top.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Help understanding video and image size restrictions
2·3 months agoWe run our own custom image caching setup. I’ll ask Kaity to look in to it and see what’s going on
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Technology@lemmy.world•Google will require developer verification for Android apps outside the Play StoreEnglish
5·3 months agoYep, blahaj.zone admin :)



I haven’t got this game yet, but if I’d have known it was the same folk that were behind Telltales Walking Dead, I’d have grabbed it weeks ago! That game was one of the most powerful experiences I’ve had in gaming, so I’m looking forward to this one much more now!