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Cake day: May 16th, 2026

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  • I’m a slow driver, at or slightly below the speed limit. My tips for not pissing people off:

    1. Use your cruise control/maintain speed. People can get used to whatever speed you’re at, but if you keep changing your speed, they’ll keep accelerating into it and slamming on the brakes.

    2. When the road opens up nice and straight with clear visibility, for fucks sake, DO NOT SPEED UP (see: 1), even though it feels natural to do so. There’s a line of cars behind you that have been waiting for the dotted yellow line to pass you–and where you feel like it’s safe to go faster is usually where they put those dotted lines.












  • I’d say they probably pick up on non-verbal communication much more than verbal. And you can point to exceptional cases, but there’s a pretty wide variation of every kind among dogs, and I’m guessing most dogs aren’t going to have the vocabulary of a marquee herding dog.

    My dog would probably pick “stay” out of this and maybe “out”, though when I say “out,” I usually inflect it up, like I do for all my questions.

    My favorite little language thing with my dog is, when I see a point of interest, like a squirrel or a another dog, is ask him “Who is it?” and he’ll start looking around. The weird thing is I didn’t teach him this, so either someone else taught him, or “hey look around there’s something you need to see” is just a really easy thing to trigger in dogs.


  • Having a good family and social circle is basically the most important part of being ready to have kids

    Well, bad news for you there, too: since we’re all busy working and commuting and moving states for jobs and our third places are disappearing for various reasons, because our connections have moved globally online instead of locally offline, we are all further away from our families of origin and have smaller social circles to help support our physical lives.