• papertowels@mander.xyz
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    1 day ago

    Eh, idk about being sought, but the dating experience did fundamentally change after I felt confident enough to be more worried about what a potential match brought to the table than whether or not I’d get a date. The pool of applicants wasn’t big, but I was happier being solo than with the wrong person.

    For the record, I didn’t down vote you.

    • SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world
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      Eventually people have to settle.

      There is no person who will check all the boxes, and limiting your options too much does mean you will be alone forever.

      These people look at it mathematically, and from that perspective they aren’t wrong.