I’ve( 22M ) been an overthinker for almost my entire life. Not only that, I have hyper-anxiety and overwhelmness. I haven’t been scheduled with a psychiatrist so far.

A few months ago, I seriously realized that I was wasting my time on devices( phones, laptops etc) and haven’t been paying attention to real life and responsibilities. Because I had made devices as a way to escape from reality.

Then I made a schedule to maintain that included low and controlled use of devices and some other things. Journaling was also a part of that.

I began to write my daily events on a journal app in my phone. I had a physical diary that I started to use to write down advices, methods, facts, important instructions that I was gathering from youtube. That diary is now filled around 60%.

I continued writing my daily journal in the app for 1.5 months and then lost the drive to continue for unknown reason. Consider this one of my main psychological problem. I lose drive very quickly.

Then I realized that, when I continued journaling, I had more control of my overall daily activity that I used to do. I had less laziness, more energy, more drive, healthy sleep schedule etc. And now, it seems that I’ve sunken into my peak rabbithole again.

Now I’m seeking advices from people who turned their life in a positive way by writing journals as a first step. Any other advices except journaling is also welcomed.

  • Photuris@lemmy.ml
    7·
    20 hours ago

    I never really saw the point of journaling, so it never “took” for me.

    I write a bunch of stuff down, and then what? What do I “do” with it? Do I read it again later? No, I won’t do that. Somebody else reads it? No, it’s not intended for that.

    So, I don’t journal as such.

    I do organize my tasks and things to remember in a bullet journal (bujo) format, though, and that helps. But it’s less about thoughts and feelings (long-winded opinions and observations), and more about tasks and events (simple and concise one-liner statements of fact).

    I do like bujo to keep my work organized.

    Ok, on a side note, the idea of a “commonplace” book does sound kind of appealing, though; but I guess my life is too busy to afford me the leisure and luxury of analyzing literature, writing poetry, and sketching natural wonders, or whatever. I’ve got too much shit to do. My few fleeting moments of “free time” are spent here, complaining (wow those naughty word filters are way too strict) about MAGA, basically.

    • nylo@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
      3·
      15 hours ago

      that’s only a thing on .ml, the rest of lemmy agrees that censoring “bitching” is pretty silly

      • Photuris@lemmy.ml
        1·
        14 hours ago

        I’m relatively new to Lemmy: what instance(s) in your (collective) opinion strike that sweet spot between being a) very free speech oriented and minimally censored, but also b) not taken over by alt-right CHUDs, trashed up like 4chan, or hosting CP, gore, and all that nastiness that comes with zero moderation?

        What I’m looking for, is just enough moderation to keep out the 4chan shit, but anything below that threshold of actually hurting people, pretty much goes uncensored.

        I just want to use the c-word, b-word, and r-word, basically. Like, there are a lot of stories posted involving JD Vance, so…

        • nylo@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
          2·
          11 hours ago

          my instance (lemmy.dbzer0.com, commonly referred to as db0) is an anarchist leftist comm.

          it’s also where r/privacy migrated to, you can find them (megathread and all) at !piracy@lemmy.dbzer0.com

          lemmy.ml, hexbear.net, and lemmygrad.ml are often called the “tankie triad” because they’re full of tankies, people will often mistake you for a tankie just by the virtue of being on that instance.

          as for other instances,

          .world is the biggest and quite liberal/centrist/moderate with pretty heavy handed moderation.

          lemmy.blahaj.zone is by trans people for trans people, I believe non-trans allies are allowed on it but if you’re not LGBT it’s probably not the best place for you.

          pawb.social is furries

          lemm.ee, lemmy.ca and sh.itjust.works I don’t know the politics of but I would assume leftist and I haven’t heard anything bad said about any of them, will leave anything past that to others.

          this might be worth a post of its own if you’re looking for more info than that tbh

          but yeah really you’re not gonna find right wing CHUDs or cp or gore or anything here there’s generally good enough content moderation to prevent that and really the only instance with crazy censorship is the one you picked lol