• festnt@sh.itjust.works
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      2 months ago

      how would he be raping her anyway? she was the one trying to force him to have sex with her even after he made it clear he didn’t want to

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        2 months ago

        Drunk people and consent is a moral and legal gray area - it doesn’t matter if they initiate

          • Rekorse@sh.itjust.works
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            2 months ago

            It also depends on what is being consented to. We accept that drunk people can consent to commit crimes, but that they cannot consent to have sex.

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              2 months ago

              If drunk people couldn’t consent as a rule then like 80% of Finnish one night stands would be double rapes (since both are getting raped by the other party) lol

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              2 months ago

              And the old “I cheated on you because I was drunk”. It’s not so heartwarming that people here are belittling rape with what would be considered negligent sexual assault at the worst.