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minus-squareOneWomanCreamTeam@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 months agoIt’s not poly if you don’t communicate that you’re poly with the people you’re saying.
minus-squareatro_city@fedia.iolinkfedilinkarrow-up0arrow-down1·3 months agoWhy not? That sounds like a vegan rule: you’re not vegan unless you tell people you’re vegan.
minus-squareWR5@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·3 months agoIt’s about consent of the other parties involved.
minus-squareatro_city@fedia.iolinkfedilinkarrow-up0·3 months agoI think that’s what people call “ethical non-monogamy”.
minus-squareOneWomanCreamTeam@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 months agoPolyamory is a type of ethical non-monogamy.
minus-squareZagorath@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·3 months agoI think atro’s point is that non-ethical polyamory can exist. It shouldn’t be done, but can, and is still a type of polyamory.
minus-squareOneWomanCreamTeam@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 months agoI mean, yeah you can do polyamory in an unethical way. But it isn’t really polyamory if the poly part is a secret to the people involved.
minus-squareatro_city@fedia.iolinkfedilinkarrow-up0·3 months agoMarriage is a type of ethical monogamy.
minus-squareOneWomanCreamTeam@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 months agoOh I know plenty of married polyamorous people.
It’s not poly if you don’t communicate that you’re poly with the people you’re saying.
Why not? That sounds like a vegan rule: you’re not vegan unless you tell people you’re vegan.
It’s about consent of the other parties involved.
I think that’s what people call “ethical non-monogamy”.
Polyamory is a type of ethical non-monogamy.
I think atro’s point is that non-ethical polyamory can exist. It shouldn’t be done, but can, and is still a type of polyamory.
I mean, yeah you can do polyamory in an unethical way. But it isn’t really polyamory if the poly part is a secret to the people involved.
Marriage is a type of ethical monogamy.
Oh I know plenty of married polyamorous people.