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Cake day: July 4th, 2023

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  • most people are caught up in their own day to day lives. it’s just the nature of things.

    you have to go to work to pay your bills. your girlfriend wants to go out to dinner every once in a while. you have to go have dinner at your parents. you have to walk your dog. you have to brush your teeth, do your laundry. you have to figure out what you’re gonna eat for dinner. should probably schedule that dentist appointment soon. need to do my taxes.

    etc

    really doesn’t leave you that much time or energy to worry about the big problems of the world.






  • Realistically would just end up a developmentally stunted invalid. There was an example from some book, I don’t remember which, where there was a SE Asian woman who lived with her family and had a baby.

    The family was ashamed, so they forced the girl to keep the baby by itself in the attic. She would go to work most of the day, and come back to take care of it when home. That was the total extent of interaction and stimulation the baby got. It ended up being severely stunted and never learned to talk.

    Essentially young children need human interaction which includes warmth and constant validation, caring for, etc

    If you interrupt that in any way, you end up with a feral child who is permanently stunted.






  • Vulnerability is attractive. But not trauma dumping.

    There’s a time and a place. So don’t be afraid of opening up, you just have to do it in an attempt to connect with people. Not to try and abuse their attention for validation.

    Secondly, never pay for an app membership. It’s not worth it and you’re getting the wrong idea how it works.

    Make a casual profile with some good pictures and send casual messages. Try to be light hearted and show a little bit of personality.

    That’s all you need. Anything more is a red flag to most women. Realize they are trying to sift through hundreds of people. They maybe have a few seconds to look through your profile.

    Also stop using the word cuck. Don’t be terminally online and read some books. Expand your perspective. Women are attracted to empathetic and intelligent men. Someone who pays attention and listens. They will give you a lot if you give it back.


  • There are very few items worth keeping Windows for. I have window on a VM on my MacBook for one specific program for work.

    On my desktop, I used to dual boot but deleted my windows install after a couple of years.

    All the games I play on Steam work on Linux. There are some multi-player games that have anticheat that don’t work well with Proton.

    Besides that, if you’re a professional and you need a software like Photoshop or Ableton or whatever, when you can’t get by with the open source alternatives, then I think it’s a valid reason. Although even in that case, I prefer MacOS

    MacOS is a little annoying at first because it has a bunch of safety rails but with some tweaking, you can get it more or less functionally identical to Linux.





  • Infrastructure bill, climate bills (even though he’s also given more fossil fuel approvals than Trump and oil companies are making nearly 3x profit under him), OTC birth control… what else?

    High inflation & high interest rates & high government spending on war.

    I would support a candidate that would

    A) reduce cost of living

    B) raise wages

    C) enact immigration reform

    D) stop funding endless war

    Right now neither candidate promises any of those items. Those 4 items would make a massive difference to virtually everyone in this country.

    I couldn’t care less about trans bathrooms. Sure, they deserve respect and equality and all that jazz. But I’m sure they would also like a good paying job and being able to comfortably afford their rent and groceries a lot more than kids being allowed to go to drag shows.

    Don’t you see how they’ve successfully managed to trick everyone into accepting these BS culture war issues as some sort of substitution for real meaningful change? They have their boot on your neck and you’re happy about it.

    We’re accelerating downhill, I think there’s only a few years left before another big war


  • Protectionism against China check

    Expansion of border wall check

    Unconditional support of Israel check

    Detention of asylum seekers at border check

    Soaring corporate profits check

    Massive number of oil and gas drilling approvals check

    Virtually no meaningful legislation or policy that improves quality of life or lowers cost of living for working class Americans… check

    Trust me. It’s not as different as the kool-aid would have you believe. You can’t just wave a pride flag around and pretend to be a progressive. I don’t buy it.


  • MAGA agenda is gonna happen under Biden too. Biden expanded border wall. Abortion rights are getting dismantled under Biden. Inflation and interest rates are pressing down on working class Americans under Biden - meanwhile corporate profits soar, especially oil companies. Oil companies are making 2-3x higher profits right now than during Trump.

    Sure, the rhetoric coming out of white house is going to be more racist, more xenophobic, more anti-gay, etc.

    But fundamentally I think the changes this country is going through is much deeper than presidential office. If Biden were a strong leader, maybe he would be able to stem the tide.

    But he is not a strong leader. He is the last gasp of air that the establishment neoliberals are desperately trying to maintain. One last attempt to maintain the broken status quo of the great experiment we started under Reagan.

    The tipping point has already been reached, a tsunami is coming and people should get ready for that