• abysmalpoptart@lemmy.world
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    Just for a little context, the minimum age being ((your age / 2)+7) is meant to be “this is the minimum age of someone you can date without it being creepy” (i believe it originated from the TV show how i met your mother)

    If you were born in 1994 you are either 30 or 31. Let’s call it 30 for easy math.

    30/2 = 15 15+7=22

    So anyone who is 22 or older fits the minimum age concept, which is anyone born in approx 2002/2003 or earlier. If you decided to include that, the extra 4-5 years does increase the dating pool quite a bit.

    I’m not telling you who to date, just giving a little context to the math since that’s what was brought up in the original comment.

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      (i believe it originated from the TV show how i met your mother)

      Although the provenance of the rule is unclear, it is sometimes said to have originated in France.[81] The rule appears in John Fox Jr.'s 1903 novel The Little Shepherd of Kingdom Come,[84] in American newspapers in 1931 attributed to Maurice Chevalier,[85] and in The Autobiography of Malcolm X, attributed to Elijah Muhammad.[86]

      In many early sources, the rule was primarily presented as a formula to calculate the ideal age of a female partner at the beginning of a heterosexual relationship. Frederick Locker-Lampson’s Patchwork from 1879 states the opinion “A wife should be half the age of her husband with seven years added.”[87] Max O’Rell’s Her Royal Highness Woman from 1901 gives the rule in the format “A man should marry a woman half his age, plus seven.”[88]

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships

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      No one knows the true origin of the idea but there’s a number of examples that predate how I met your mother by over a hundred years.

      The first published example is Max O’Rell in Her Royal Highness, Woman: And His Majesty—Cupid from 1901

      I heard the other day a very good piece of advice, which I should like to repeat here, as I endorse it thoroughly : A man should marry a woman half his age, plus seven. Try it at whatever age you like, and you will find it works very well, taking for granted all the while that, after all, a man as well as a woman is the age that he looks and feels.

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      Invert this rule to get the maximum age you can date (defined as the person whose minimum age is your current age):

      min age = (your age / 2) + 7 max age = (your age * 2) - 14

      If you’re 30, then you can reasonably date people between 22 and 46. So the other guy can add even more years before 1990.

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      It had to be a thing before how I met your mother, I remember it being a thing during school in the 80-90’s

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      Also, for the maximum age they are the younger one. So assuming age is 30, substract 7 and multiply the outcome by 2, maximum date age is 46…