maybe she was trying to be cheeky and meant to move in with anon
Steal her boyfriend.
Maybe she’s poly, who knows.
It’s not poly if you don’t communicate that you’re poly with the people you’re saying.
Why not? That sounds like a vegan rule: you’re not vegan unless you tell people you’re vegan.
It’s about consent of the other parties involved.
I think that’s what people call “ethical non-monogamy”.
Polyamory is a type of ethical non-monogamy.
Marriage is a type of ethical monogamy.
Oh I know plenty of married polyamorous people.
I think atro’s point is that non-ethical polyamory can exist. It shouldn’t be done, but can, and is still a type of polyamory.
I mean, yeah you can do polyamory in an unethical way. But it isn’t really polyamory if the poly part is a secret to the people involved.
