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minus-squareOneWomanCreamTeam@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 months agoIt’s not poly if you don’t communicate that you’re poly with the people you’re saying.
minus-squareatro_city@fedia.iolinkfedilinkarrow-up0arrow-down1·3 months agoWhy not? That sounds like a vegan rule: you’re not vegan unless you tell people you’re vegan.
minus-squareWR5@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·3 months agoIt’s about consent of the other parties involved.
minus-squareatro_city@fedia.iolinkfedilinkarrow-up0·3 months agoI think that’s what people call “ethical non-monogamy”.
minus-squareOneWomanCreamTeam@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 months agoPolyamory is a type of ethical non-monogamy.
minus-squareZagorath@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·3 months agoI think atro’s point is that non-ethical polyamory can exist. It shouldn’t be done, but can, and is still a type of polyamory.
minus-squareOneWomanCreamTeam@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 months agoI mean, yeah you can do polyamory in an unethical way. But it isn’t really polyamory if the poly part is a secret to the people involved.
minus-squareatro_city@fedia.iolinkfedilinkarrow-up0·3 months agoMarriage is a type of ethical monogamy.
minus-squareOneWomanCreamTeam@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 months agoOh I know plenty of married polyamorous people.
Maybe she’s poly, who knows.
It’s not poly if you don’t communicate that you’re poly with the people you’re saying.
Why not? That sounds like a vegan rule: you’re not vegan unless you tell people you’re vegan.
It’s about consent of the other parties involved.
I think that’s what people call “ethical non-monogamy”.
Polyamory is a type of ethical non-monogamy.
I think atro’s point is that non-ethical polyamory can exist. It shouldn’t be done, but can, and is still a type of polyamory.
I mean, yeah you can do polyamory in an unethical way. But it isn’t really polyamory if the poly part is a secret to the people involved.
Marriage is a type of ethical monogamy.
Oh I know plenty of married polyamorous people.