I for one have stopped posting any content to lemmy.ml communities.

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    19 days ago

    As long as it’s not only lemmy.world communities you start growing. Centralization won’t lead to good outcomes anywhere.

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      Absolutely! Grow a community on any instance that doesn’t allow the kind of users that lemmy.ml does I say.

      I think we gave them too much power by making their communities as big as we did

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      Yeah, we’d hate to make a good alternative when everyone can just use Bluesky and Meta.

      The hate for .world simply because of size doesn’t make sense to me. It’s fine to make new (unique) communities elsewhere, but shunning the biggest successful communities on .world to try to grow empty communities on other instances is cutting off your nose to spite your face.

      If you’re constantly shunning the biggest instance simply for being big, you’ll end up killing Lemmy.

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    Here’s a list of a few .ml communities and potential replacements:

    in .ml alternative
    asklemmy !asklemmy@lemm.ee, !asklemmy@sh.itjust.works
    linux !linuxquestions@lemmy.zip, !linux@linux.community, !linux@programming.dev
    memes !memes@sopuli.xyz
    programmerhumor !programmer_humor@programming.dev
    world news !news@beehaw.org

    Side note the main issue with .ml is transparency. It’s fine if the admins of an instance implement whatever rules they want in their instance; however, once they start enforcing hidden rules disguised as violations of the listed rules, they’re being liars and treating the users as stupid things to be herded, not as human beings.

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      19 days ago

      If they were banning people for shit posting on a communism community I wouldn’t have a problem. Its when you get removed banned from all communities because you said you don’t like there crappy memes

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        Or even if they had an instance-wide rule saying “don’t criticise Russia or China here”. It’s fine as long as the rules are clear.

        But no, instead they libel the users criticising either, claiming that they violated rule #1 (TL;DR “no bigots”). Even when the criticism is clearly against the government.

        And then you get a bunch of 11yos eating that ban message for breakfast, because they’re full of gullibleness and don’t get the purpose of this utterance dumb fucks.

        • Serinus@lemmy.world
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          19 days ago

          That rule becomes clear very quickly when you’re familiar with Lemmy. (Unless you’re defederated from .ml.)

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        19 days ago

        I’m avoiding linking lemmy.world instances. We shouldn’t put even more eggs in that basket, you know.

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      The .ml transparency thing is a symptom, not a root cause. The admins like and even participate in the .ml rhetoric. The rules ambiguity is intentional.

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        19 days ago

        We could argue that the root cause is that .ml admins pretending that their instance’s target audience is wider than it actually is.

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      It’s fine if the admins of an instance implement whatever rules they want in their instance; however, once they start enforcing hidden rules disguised as violations of the listed rules, they’re being liars and treating the users as stupid things to be herded, not as human beings.

      I see a lot more of that on .world communities, specifically the news and political memes communities will remove comments for “misinformation” even if you’re citing academic works.

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        19 days ago

        If the .world admins are doing it too, it’s also bad. Thankfully I didn’t list a single .world community, although for another reason.

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        19 days ago

        will remove comments for “misinformation”

        As they should

        even if you’re citing academic works.

        I’ve seen the “academic works” y’all cite, blog posts, YT videos, random books and retracted studies

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    19 days ago

    honestly, I eventually got fed up enough and instance blocked .ml on my account a couple weeks ago, and Ive barely noticed a difference. It was the bulk of lemmy right after it started to get some migration from Reddit, but it isnt nearly as essential these days already

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      Lemmy.ml is one of the biggest instances that serves up tankies, there was some conversation going on the .world admin thread regarding the federation issues about why not just defederate/“not fix it” and it was brought up they have a lot of content including one of the biggest Linux communities.

      Thus this meme was born lol

    • originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com
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      19 days ago

      ive noticed several communities being moved off of .ml because of overacting mods shitting their own beds (my fav movies comm being one of them). kinda the whole point of the 'verse. i also noticed a recent sync in-congruence from .ml to .world which indicates some kind of funny business… purposeful or not

      the locals at .ml seem to have this notion that theyre too big to fail, which is patently not true considering the tiny size of the fediverse overall.

      id recommend users utilize a ‘home’ instance thats more of an onramp than local-content curation… (https://moist.catsweat.com being in this category) they tend to not defederate from any instances so users can easily switch subscriptions when shit goes sideways in the content-heavy servers without making new accounts.

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        19 days ago

        i also noticed a recent sync in-congruence from .ml to .world which indicates some kind of funny business… purposeful or not

        This isn’t unique to world or ml. There’s some wonky shit going on with federating across Lemmy at the very least, maybe other parts of the fediverse that I don’t use. On walledgarden there are at least half a dozen instances that are falling in and out of sync with our communities. No one on either side of the connection seems to have an answer for what caused this behavior or how to correct it. Talking to some other instances, we aren’t alone.

        The lemmyverse crawler/site has also shown some odd behavior with communities and instances disappearing and reappearing seemingly at random.

        I don’t think anything malicious is being done by any of the instances or admins in regards to federation delays.

      • Natanox@discuss.tchncs.de
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        19 days ago

        Damn, never noticed I couldn’t say stuff like “the US is a shitshow” over here. The agents on my door were always so nice as well!

        Buggers, guess I’ll have to buy some Apple stocks now and pleasure myself over a picture of Abraham Lincoln.

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    19 days ago

    The way I see it if they get defederated a lot of the people will migrate away from it and it won’t be “too big to fail” anymore

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      19 days ago

      The best way to keep them all contained would be to not defederate but encourage everyone on other instances to add it to their instance mute list so you don’t have to interact with them.

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    19 days ago

    my instance has been defederated from .ml for ages and i can personally confirm fedi is still fun here :) take that as you will

  • Steal Wool@lemm.ee
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    19 days ago

    I like being able to block instances, without my instance doing it for me, lemm.ee is pretty good about that, like yeah, I blocked lemmygrad and hexbears but still have the option to see their stuff without switching accounts